When the drumbeats were heard, the smell of sweet fragrance of Harsingar, or ‘Shiuli’ as we call it in Bengali, was in the air, open fields were surrounded by Kash phool (Kans grass) and my mind used to be overjoyed as all these used to bring the joyous message that – Durga Maa is coming home! That was around so many years ago… my growing up years in Calcutta or rather Kolkata! Durga Puja then was all about garnering a shot of freedom, of carefree behavior, every single year.
Nothing can compare to Durga Puja celebrations in Kolkata. The ‘City of Joy’ does not sleep, and its people enjoy the revelry to the hilt! Its five days of celebrations with themed pandals and traditional pujas, food, friendship and creativity. This part of the country seems illuminated from the sky as the city is bathed in lights. This is the way of life for Kolkata residents, and one must visit Kolkata during Puja to experience it firsthand.
Though the celebrations around Durga Puja last for over four days, mainly from Saptami to Dashami, the mood of the Durga Puja sets in much earlier in the life of the people of Bengal. It starts with the idol making at Kumartuli, a place famous for its beautiful clay idols of Gods and Goddesses and pottery. The entire process of creation of the idols or ‘murti’, as it is commonly known as from the collection of clay to the ornamentation, is a holy process and supervised by rites and other rituals.
Durga Puja evenings are incomplete if adults and kids do not take the floor to dance to the rhythmic beats of dhak and bells, holding earthen pots billowing a fragrant smoke. This impromptu dance is called ‘Dhunuchi naach’, a prominent custom and the most awaited activity after the evening Durga Aarti. Smoke, sound and rhythmic swaying creates an ambience which is purely intense and intoxicating! The Joie De Vivre seen in Kolkata during Puja days has been compared to the famous Carnival in Rio de Janeiro. The carnival spirit is more evident on the last day of Durga Puja (the day India celebrates Dussehra) when the idols are taken out in a procession for immersion in the river Ganges midst cacophony of Dhaak, dhunuchi naach and the chants of ‘Balo Durga mai ki jai’. The final day of celebration is incomplete without the famous ‘Sindoor Khela’, which has become such an important part of the cultural identity of Bengal. Women draped in quintessential red and white saree apply sindoor to each other and offer sweets.
It has always been amazing to see how craftsmen shape the fantastic pandals (temporary marquees housing for Maa Durga and family) with bamboo, canvas and colored cloth; there is no construction, imaginary or real, that they cannot give shape to. Kolkata literally turns into a virtual walk-through gallery! The magnificent structures of the pandals and commendable artwork allows you to get a hint of Bengali tradition. These pandals justify why Durga Puja is a profligate affair in Kolkata! What is Durga Puja sans pandal hopping, right? Pandal hopping by night is a special attraction because of the massive illuminations. The vast canvas of the themes that are showcased in these pandals are just unparalleled and must have to be seen to be believed.
Colorful lights and elaborate lighting turns Kolkata into a fairy town at night during Durga Puja. In fact, what was earlier known as ‘Chandannagorer lighting’, the illumination executed by electricians from the district town, predates the trend of holding theme-based Puja. With the help of a rudimentary motor and a string of bulbs, these electricians used their indigenous technology to create magic through illumination. With advance technology, the illumination has gone up several notches and even if you are not quite religious, you might still venture out in the streets to see these ‘light’ paintings across the city.
Hopping from one pandal to another, by day or by night, does make you feel hungry. This is the time to check out the street food. A nibble here, a bite there and you are good to go! Two of the fastest moving foods on Kolkata streets are the ‘roll’ and ‘momo’. The roll, Kolkata’s equivalent of a ‘wrap’ or a ‘Frankie’ is essentially a paratha wrapped around a filling of cooked egg or chicken or mutton kebab, with some onion and green bell pepper, chopped chilies and a dash of lime, and an optional smearing of tomato ketchup or chili sauce. The momo, or the Tibetan version of the dumpling, has been Kolkata-ised too, with fillings of chicken and mutton replacing pork. Do not worry if you are a vegetarian, they have options to satisfy your cravings. Other popular items sold off the cart are dosas and a very ‘desi’ version of stir-fried noodles or ‘chow mein’. And of course, how can there be pandal hopping without a puchka refuel! At every corner, you will find the ubiquitous puchka-seller, the jhaalmuri-wala and bhel-wala. The ‘puchka’ is Bengal’s version of the ‘golgappa’ or the ‘panipuri’. And I must have to mention the famous Bengali desserts like Mishti Doi, Sondesh and Rassogolla’s sweeten the celebrations across the city.
A beautiful gathering of family and friends is another highlight of the Durga Puja fervor. Festivals bring people and families closer. Likewise, during Durga Puja, Bengali’s spend time with their near and dear ones through long adda(chat) sessions at various Puja Mandaps. I have been celebrating Durga puja with my family and friends in Boston for almost two decades now. Durga Puja in Boston may not match the grandeur of Kolkata, but it surely helps rekindle some of the nostalgic moments from my childhood days!
If you are planning to visit Kolkata, then Durga Puja is the perfect time to go there. The magnificence of this festival enthralls the visitors in a way that they love to come back to the city during puja festivities every year!
Sara Pinson, assistant director for college admissions at AcceptU, provides an overview of today’s college admissions landscape and how families can best prepare for success in the process.
In this webinar, you will learn
how your child’s applications will be read,
how to stand out in the application pool, why some applicants do not get in,
Across the country, the COVID-19 pandemic is having devastating effects. We have felt the pain and loss in our own community. While the pandemic has kept us apart, there is new hope—vaccines are here. They will help us move closer to ending the pandemic. We want everyone in our community to be safe and get back to hugging our families and friends and shaking hands with our neighbors. Getting the COVID-19 vaccine adds one more layer of protection for you, your family, and your loved ones.
IAGB and New England community organizations in partnership are hosting Community Covid 19 Vaccination camp and inviting the community members to take advantage of this opportunity. Please vaccinate, protect yourself and your loved ones.
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New England Tamil Sangham
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The COVID-19 situation in India is dire and India is facing one of the worst covid outbreaks in the history of the pandemic. The second wave is far deadlier than the first. The hospitals and paramedical services are overwhelmed. There is an extreme shortage of critical medical supplies. The images from India are difficult to witness, such as those of Indians with empty oxygen cylinders crowding refilling facilities, hoping to save loved ones in the hospital.
New England Community organizations – IAGB, TAGB, IMANE, Vision-Aid, UIANE, NATS-Boston, BVIS, OSNE, TMM, NETS and others are joining hands for a virtual 5K Walk/Run event to support #IndiaCovid19Response in this need of the hour.
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Support/participate in #ChaleChaloForIndia – 4th Annual 5K Walk/Run, and help India defeat Covid-19 wave
Join us for the 4th Virtual Annual Run to promote and maintain healthy lifestyles while we all get through this unique time in our lives. In addition to 5K walk and run, you can also participate in various physical activities.
When: May 8th or 9th
Time: Anytime. You can also join us at any IAGB suggested places, starting at 8:30
Where: Anywhere convenient to you. You can also join us at the IAGB suggested locations for 5K Run/Walk
IAGB suggested locations (May 8th):
Heart Pond – Chelmsford – Bruce Freeman Trail
Bedford Minuteman Trail
Assabet River Rail Trail – Marlboro RR Station
Nashua Rail Road Trail
Choose any physical activity that you like to do:
Run
Walk
Group Exercise (Kickboxing, Step, CrossFit, BollyX)
The registration can be at an individual level or at a family level – Age is not a concern – all proceeds will be donated to a good cause
Virtual runs – run or walk outdoors but limit the time on roads and continue to support safe and healthy running distances and social distancing
The recommended event days are May 8th and 9th. However, you can support our effort for a good cause and participate in any physical activity at any time.
Set your running trail in your neighborhood and run/walk 5K or more, at your own pace, and make sure to track it on your preferred app.
Maintain 6ft distance and STAY SAFE and follow up recommended COVID 19 guidelines.
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Early bird 100 registrants with suggested donation will get a T-shirt. Wear the T-Shirt as part of the Run/Walk or any physical activity you choose.
Pick up your t-shirt from the location we announce, wear it on the run day to show that you supported our fundraising effort.
“It is a love-cum-arranged marriage”, Renu had informed her small, close-knit community in the outskirts of Rajkot, Gujarat. Her nephew was marrying a Punjabi girl, in an inter-cultural marriage, in the US. For those unaware of this Indian parlance, it is called a “love marriage” when the couple meet, get to know each other, fall in love and then decide to marry – before the family is involved. It is “arranged” when the family is the matchmaker and gets the couple together with an intention of getting them married. In India the latter is still a common practice. In the eyes of conservative folks in India, a marriage is a union between two families, and ensuring the couple has the blessings from both families, which culminates in a traditional wedding, is very important. So “love-cum-arranged” softens the jagged edges of the love (read as “youthful foolishness” through the orthodox tinted glasses) with the cloak of family acceptance and blessing!
A few years ago, their community in Gujarat had been taken quite by storm, on seeing her nephew’s prom picture on Facebook, with his then white girlfriend. There had been an amusing rumor that the couple had eloped and this was their wedding picture. Renu was close to her nephew; even his confidant during his various relationships and breakups – which included girls from various ethnicities and religions. Being a progressive herself, she had been supportive of all his relationships. She had even saved their current relationship which had been on a brink of a breakup. So it wasn’t too far-fetched when she called it “love-cum-arranged”. She was also the bridge between the modern folks and the conservative members in her family. “Chokari apana dharmani che” – she conveyed this rather important aspect, that the bride belongs to the same religion, to the conservative wing. “Ane chokara nathi”, and he is not marrying a boy, quips the groom’s cousin. Overall, the family was happy that the boy had found an Indian bride in the US.
The Mehtas, aspiring for an authentic ceremony, had invited Shastriji, the family priest, straight from India to officiate the marriage. They had hired a local wedding planner in the US to manage the rest of the event. Renu’s brother, Mr Mehta, had tasked her with accompanying Shastriji from India. Upon her arrival to the US, Renu cultivated new friendships within both families, especially with relatives visiting from India. Among the visitors was the bride’s grandmother, Biji, visiting from Patiala. Biji was very alert, curious and full of life, except that she couldn’t hear very well. Renu was very patient with her, and they became quite the pair. Renu had arranged a US east coast trip for the Indian visitors to Niagara Falls, Statue of Liberty, the White House and Atlantic City. During the trip, while the visitors were enjoying themselves, Renu realized very shortly that these two headstrong guests, Biji and Shastriji, didn’t see eye to eye on many matters. As Biji went all out in Atlantic City; Shastriji, though curious and interested, had been too embarrassed to visit the casino.
Time flew by in preparations and ceremonies until the much awaited wedding day. The wedding planner was executing with finesse, and so far the perfectly orchestrated event spread over multiple days was smooth sailing. Starting with Sagai or engagement, mandap and griha puja, mehndi, haldi, sangeet until the most important part of the wedding ceremony. On the wedding day, Shastriji was in his best form, dressed in a full purohit attire of dhoti, kurta and pagdi, as he took his place in the mandap to perform the marriage. In a beautiful culmination of ceremonies, Shashtriji led the couple in the Gujarati custom of four mangal pheras around the fire representing Dharma (duty), Artha (prosperity), Kama (love) and Moksha (liberation) followed by Saptapadi – the seven steps for the marriage vows of nourishment, strength, faith, love and respect, caring for children, health and peace, friendship and loyalty. Then the couple went around to get blessings from elders, starting with Biji, who was the eldest among both families. The otherwise easygoing Biji refused to bless the couple! She said she had been counting and the couple only took four pheras, so technically, per punjabi customs, the ceremony wasn’t complete. No explanation could convince Biji. Not even that Saptapadi – the seven steps – completed the marriage vows. Shastriji, proud of a job well done, couldn’t be convinced to add three more pheras. The blessings from other family members stopped with Biji’s refusal!
Within a few minutes the mood in the mandap changed from exuberant to somber. In the moment of crisis Renu remembered the casino on the eighth floor of the wedding venue hotel. On the pretext of the wedding buffet, she arranged for a few members of the wedding party to accompany Shastriji ever-so-casually past the casino. Hadn’t he indulged in Diwali gambling tradition to invoke Goddess Lakshmi (Goddess of wealth) before? Officiating the fantastic wedding ceremony absolutely called for a celebration! A little tentative at first, Shastriji relented. With the coast clear for the next few hours, Renu asked the wedding planner to arrange for a local priest to officiate another ceremony with Punjabi style pheras. This time, Biji sat in the Mandap and counted all seven pheras around the fire. This time, she showered the couple with blessings!
What started off as an easy, all Indian wedding, had almost started to turn sour. Who wants the first step in a new life together to be left with unpleasant memories! The wedding planner was indebted to Renu. Due to her quick thinking, Shastriji would not regret not having visited an American casino, Biji would remember her blessings with contentment and the rest of the family would cherish the memories of the two ceremonies that made the wedding vows stronger.
eNews edition shines SPOTLIGHT on an individual (or a team) who has (have) a positive and significant impact on the lives of New England residents and on community organizations.
Women’s History Month is a celebration of women’s contributions to history, culture and society and has been observed annually in the month of March in the United States since 1987. To honor the Women’s History Month, IAGB shines its SPOTLIGHT on three ‘everyday’ women, the founders of Women Who Win Platform. Ms. Shaleen Sheth, Dr. Deepa Jhaveri, and Dr. Manju Sheth created a platform that brings women of all cultures, industries, and age groups together.
IAGB: Welcome to IAGB SPOTLIGHT. Fortunately, the IAGB community has had the opportunity to meet and get to about Manju in one of our earlier SPOTLIGHT editions. Deepa, Shaleen – brief us about your life journey so far.
Deepa: I grew up in Mumbai and moved to the US when I was 18. I did my college at University of Maryland. College Park, and then attended Temple University for my DPM degree in Podiatry and finished up my education with Residency years in Florida. I moved to Boston about 15 years ago to practice as a Podiatrist. To be integrated with the Indian American community I joined Indian Medical Association of New England (IMANE) which is where I met Manju which is how I specifically got involved with the women’s forum, a subchapter under IMANE. I worked with Manju during this time and since then we always wanted to create a platform with a focus on Women’s empowerment, but life just took over and when the Pandemic put us in a lockdown mode Manju, Shaleen and I got together and discussed what could we do, and that is how the idea of Women Who Win came to fruition.
Shaleen – I graduated from Babson college this past year with a major in Finance and Business. While in college, I worked in the marketing office on campus. In this role I had opportunity to interview other students, plus I got a lot of exposure of working on social media platforms and creating content. Also, growing up I had observed mom working in the field of media and was always intrigued by the media world. I felt this was a great way to meet people. I always have been interested in learning people’s stories, knowing more about their lives, and learning why they do things they do. So, when Mom and Deepa were talking about working on the concept of Women’s empowerment, I was excited to join them, and take on the technology side. My other passion has been to work in media so this Women Who Win project gave me an opportunity to bring both my passion for tech and media together.
IAGB: How are your roles and responsibilities divvied up between you three?
Shaleen – If I were to name my role it would be the Director of Technology for Women Who Win. I built the website from scratch. It was a labor of love. Deepa and I are managing the day-to-day operations. We together manage the day-to-day posts and coordinate with different writers while at the same time focusing on the growth efforts. My mom, the third co-founder of Women Who Win has been instrumental in finding the right kind of stories and focused on the strategy and expansion. When it comes to story selection, I focus more on the Millennial and Global type of stories while Deepa focuses more on Health and Wellness kinds of stories. So, in a nutshell it does appear like we have designated roles but we are pretty flexible and take up work as and when it comes up.
Deepa: There have been times when situation demanded for us to switch roles but in general, we work in silos as Shaleen mentioned.
IAGB: Women Empowerment can mean many different things. How would you define your underlying motivation about Women Empowerment?
Deepa: It’s true that there are a lot of high achieving women who already get a lot of attention but then there are millions of other women whose achievements fly under the radar. We wanted to bring the story of everyday woman to the forefront. All three of us enjoy learning about people’s life’s stories. For instance, the story about the breast cancer survivor had so much to offer to our readers, the kinds of struggles she went through and other people can commiserate and have the feel-good kind of vibe. It gives hope to all those people who have gone through tough times and know that there are ways to come out of it. There have been other inspirational stories such as the story about the female pilot and many more. By bringing these magnificent stories out in the sunlight, we have given hope to many women out there – this is about everyday women.
Shaleen – Exactly true and that is why we have the tag line – ‘everyday woman dreamer’ because we wanted it to be a platform for the everyday woman. We are not unique in the sense that there are many platforms that promote and propagate the message of women empowerment but most of them are focused only on celebrity women in the spotlight, we wanted to be unique in the sense that we offer a megaphone to the voice of everyday woman. The other significance of our platform is that this platform is for all ages. We have stories from older generation that can teach us and then we have stories from girls who are younger than me and who have valuable lessons to offer from their still youthful life. This aspect is unique to us.
IAGB: What is the process of identifying the ’woman’ whose story you want to tell?
Shaleen: The process is multi prong. There is self-nomination – where in the women have sent messages to us wanting to share their stories, we have had people who referred to us about women who have interesting stories to tell and then there are those to whom we reached out based on our research and asked them to tell us their stories.
Deepa: Because of my health background I try to reach to people who can share topical stories in this regard. Only this past week we shared a story about allergies and asthma – a concern that a lot of moms have with regards to kids. So, for such topics we reach out to specialists in the respective fields that can have a huge impact on women’s health concerns and try to get them address these issues in their articles. The outreach is via email, Facebook, Instagram and sometimes via word of mouth.
Once we decide on the person and the topic, the three of us come up with questions. We curate the questions to make sure that the answers to them reflect information that a lay person can understand. The objective here is to make sure that the article appeals to a broad audience. Once the questions are sent, we give them a time frame in which the contributors are to respond with their answers. We do edit the replies only for length and clarity. We do not change the content knowledge itself. Once the final version is ready, we get their bio and photograph and it’s off for publication.
Shaleen: Lot of thought is put in writing up the questions and all contributors have our expectations deck that clearly states the requirements so to that extent we have standardized our process. So very often the editing is limited to some grammatical edits.
IAGB: With what frequency do you publish your stories?
Shaleen: In the beginning it was daily, five days a week. We were uploading a new article every single weekday between August and December on FB, Instagram, LinkedIn and on our website. We had our calendar published so people were expecting our articles and were waiting on it to read. Then once we had built our foundation and had sizable ongoing audience, we pared the frequency down to three days a week. Now we do articles three days a week on FB, LinkedIn, and Instagram and on Tuesdays and Thursdays we moderate Open forums where we do discussion questions. The questions can be simple fun elements like popular Netflix shows or some other casual topics like motivational quotes, news, Q&A. People love to chime in on these discussion forums. The idea behind these forums is to create some engagement with our audiences so we can hear from them on different topics and give people a little break from their day and a chance to engage with others virtually. On these forums the interaction is not just with us but also with each other but in a controlled fashion.
IAGB: Why did you decide to choose stories only from women and how dispersed is your audience base?
Deepa: Our audiences are global. We have audiences from India, Ireland, UK and many other countries in addition to people from US and Canada. Our thought process was that women might feel more comfortable when only women are part of this discussion and are more candid in sharing their concerns and remedies. Many of the topics are gender specific and it is easy to hone on. For example, when we did an article on Podiatry, we focused on specific issues that women tend to have with foot injuries which by its nature is different from issues that men tend to have with their feet.
IAGB: Do you have data as to how many Men read these articles?
Shaleen: Our data does not show which gender is reading more but our Facebook closed group is open only to women. Via this channel we have data that women are engaging actively with our articles. That said, anecdotally I can tell you that we have had some amazing comments, feedback and advice from our male allies. And that is why we have the public page on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn where we enable it to be read by all.
Deepa: Additionally, our website does generate data about the hits on the page and other engagement activity such as time spent, and number of articles opened but it is not gender specific. We do spend a good deal of time studying the analytics.
IAGB: Are you content with the volume of traffic and readership as of today?
Shaleen: We see a lot of returning visitors plus a steady stream of new visitors. We have the audiences that have been with us since beginning – we know for fact that they have stayed, and the number of new visitors keeps increasing as weeks roll by. Overall, we are satisfied.
IAGB: How have you been able to increase readership?
Deepa: I would say mostly every new contributor helps in spreading the word within her own friend circle and community and most of these new readers stay on.
Shaleen: We share these articles in niche groups, like for example if an article is about health then we share that article in relevant groups where we know that the members of that group have an added interest to read and this way, we captivate a wider audience for our articles. This past week we had an article about Finance, and I tagged a bunch of accountants on Insta and I know a lot of them read it based on comments and data analytics. Some even took pictures of their favorite sections and shared them.
IAGB: Is there a quality check? Have you had situations when you found the responses to your questions not up to your standards that you expect it to be?
Deepa: Fortunately, we did not have a reason so far to be in that situation. Very rarely we have had to tweak or send it back to the contributor for some additional information, but we have had a very good run with all of our contributors.
IAGB: This venture is a nonprofit, but have you thought of ways to monetize it in the future?
Deepa: As of now we are focused on establishing this even more firmly. But once we have a large number of contributions, we might plan on collating them based on the different underlying themes and package them in the form of a book to be published widely. If there is a monetization it will be only done to give it back to women empowerment causes and not for personal enrichment.
IAGB: Will you be adding more personnel?
Shaleen: Presently this project is growing organically and the skills we are employing are our own. But we surely are thinking of hiring interns in near term. In fact, Deepa’s daughter has become our defacto graphic designer. Our LinkedIn posts is designed by Maira, Deepa’s younger one.
IAGB: What are the biggest hurdles you have faced in regards to this venture?
Deepa: Time management has been our biggest challenge. Trying to do all this along with my full-time day job and managing my family has been challenging. But that said we have worked out a pretty good schedule between the three of us. Largely speaking, we have got things under control for most of the days.
Shaleen: I have had a steep learning curve since getting on to this project. I had never built a website before, so it really took a lot from me. I remember pulling in 15-hour a day for three consecutive days at the beginning. I went through some hiccups. And of course, time management is also a challenge especially now since I have started to work full time also.
Deepa: We are hoping that this will be our baby for many years to come. We definitely want to grow our audiences to a much larger numbers and we still have some fresh ideas that we will be implementing in the coming weeks and months.
IAGB: How many hours a week does this project take from each one of you?
Deepa: Our meetings are three hours a week. Which is when we delegate the work to each other. Me and Shaleen connect many times a week as we put the stories together while Manju is focusing on strategic issues. So, to sum it up it could be considered as a part time job hours, ranging anywhere between 10 – 15 hours a week.
IAGB: Shaleen, have you had any additional challenges in working with mom and her best friend?
Shaleen: It is working great for me. There are things that my mom knows that I do not and then on issues such as technology I am more aware, so we talk and share. Mom certainly knows more about people and has wisdom to share, and I am glad that I get a front row seat to learn from her.
Deepa: We are blessed with unique set of skills and have tremendous respect for each other so there are not really disagreements but that said we are comfortable to communicate with each other if and when we disagree.
IAGB: How significant has been support from your family?
Deepa: Deepak and Vishaal and my kids have been amazingly supportive especially with time management. Aanya and Myra have some unique skills that we have been able to draw upon and they are keen on helping us in every way they can.
IAGB: Before we wrap up a couple of questions to Manju, the third co-founder of Women Who Win. Manju, as the chief strategist can you elaborate on your near-term and long-term strategic vision to make Women Who Win become more prominent as a reckoning force in the field of women empowerment?
Manju: I would not call myself a strategist but a visionary. I truly believe that every life has a dream and a story to tell so I am led by my instincts and passion for storytelling. I do bring my experience, expertise & knowledge of the community to this platform. I am also a very big dreamer myself so am very focused on the success of this platform.
On that note, we have been asked to host some special empowering events and share our stories on multiple platforms across the globe, so we are looking into that. We have received so many recommendations to write a book. We, have networking and mentoring on our radar too .We also plan to bring some major movers and shakers to our platform soon . It is all work in progress at the moment. This platform has grown exponentially which has been a very pleasant surprise for us. We get so many thoughtful emails everyday and I feel that we are making a difference and inspiring so many women on a daily basis
It is a wonderful feeling as we all learn from each other, grow together, and feel empowered.
IAGB: It’s obvious by the success that your ‘mom-friend-daughter’ team is working great. Are there any challenges in this dynamic and how do you deal with them?
Manju: Shaleen always complains that I am a workaholic and do not know how to switch off. I do work a lot in the evenings and weekends as my day job is in medicine. Shaleen has made a very nice work life balance that I lack. She works very hard but gets annoyed as I keep interrupting her previous downtime or ‘chilling time’ as she is working from home. I am also very timeline / deadline orientated which bothers her sometimes. Deepa is a great mediator. On the plus side, Shaleen is very creative like me and can read my mind and shares my vision. Overall, it is an absolutely joy to work with my daughter and Deepa, my best friend who is like a younger sister. I count my blessings daily.
The story telling competition this year was slightly different from the previous years.
The first difference is pretty obvious, that the competition was held through Zoom sessions rather than face-to-face. The 2nd difference is that we had IAGB Youth directors who along with the IAGB Board members, co-organized this competition. My name is Sushil Motwani, and I am one of the Directors on the board of the India Association of Greater Boston, and Aarushi Pant who is a junior at Westboro High, is our IAGB Youth Director who co-organized it along with me. The 3rd difference was that this time, we provided topics on which the kids would create a story, as compared to previous years, where kids could tell a story on whatever they wished:
Category A: (Kindergarten to 2nd Grade) – Tell us a story about what you like or dislike about the Corona Virus and how it has changed how much fun you could have.
Category B: (3rd Grade to 5th Grade) – The remote school or hybrid school during COVID-19 has changed the way we do school. Tell us in the form of a story, or speech, what would you like to change to make school more fun.
The competition was a “live” competition held on 17th January 2021 between the hours of 10:00am EST to 12:00 noon EST in which the children recited/told the story live to a panel of 5 esteemed judges on a Zoom Call. The judges for the competition were: (As you can see that the youth and women were well represented in this group ?)
Emily Hazard – Student at UMass Lowell Shoba Donti – Director at Kumon, North Andover Anzhuo Wang – High School Student Omshreya Swain – High School Student Selena Luo – High School Student
The competition was not broadcast live.
Each participant was sent to a Breakout Room and had 3 minutes or less to talk about their story.
The story was to be presented in any form i.e., regular storytelling format or props.
Participants were judged by the exposition of the selected story (10), clarity/understanding of message (10), quality of message (10), memorization (10) and speaking style (10).
We would like to thank the children very much for participating in the storytelling competition and the parents for encouraging the kids to perform despite the virtual nature of the competition. The judges were extremely impressed with the level of effort and confidence with which each of the kids performed. The deliberations between the judges were remarkably interesting to watch and hear.
Congratulations to all the wonderful children, as without their participation, we would not have winners.